Thursday, August 15, 2013

difference between excuse and forgive

forgive - (уучилж хэлрүүлэх, өршөөх) энэ ямар нэг хүнд хэрэг хийсэн тохиолдолд.
[transitiveintransitive] to stop feeling angry with someone who has done something to harm, annoy, or upset you; to stop feeling angry with yourself
excuse - (өршөөх, өршөөгөөрэй, уучлах, зөвтгөх, уучлаарай) энэ нь жижиг алдаа хийх тохиолбол буюу өөр танихгүй хүнд хүндрэл учруулах тохиолдолд ашиглагдана 
[transitive] to forgive someone for something that they have done, for example not being polite or making a small mistake



difference between forgive and excuse
  • "Excuse me" is asking for permission.

    You say "excuse me" before doing something that might inconvenience someone.
    Please forgive me is a more formal way of saying "Sorry"

  • Excuse is more strong word than sorry and this word say that you have a some guilty

  • If you step on somebody's toe, or accidentally bump into someone, you say "I'm sorry"!
    If you hurt someone's feelings you really owe them an apology so you should say "I'm sorry I hurt your feelings". "I'm sorry I said that about you. Will you please forgive me?"

    If you sneeze or cough, you should say "excuse me". If you reach across the table to get the salt, and you have reached across them (into their space), say "excuse me".

    If you have made someone angry, and you want everything to be alright between you, you might need to say "Please forgive me, I feel awful that I made you angry, and I want you to forgive me". They will probably say, "I forgive you", or "Oh, it's okay, I'm not angry...I was just a little hurt".

  • There is all the difference in the world between forgiving and excusing. Forgiveness says “Yes, you have done this thing, but I accept your apology; I will never hold it against you and everything between us two will be exactly as it was before.”But excusing says “I see that you couldn’t help it or didn’t mean it; you weren’t really to blame.” If one was not really to blame then there is nothing to forgive.


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